Depression after a breakup

Ask any mental healthy professional about the definition of depression and he will tell you that it’s a mood disorder that results from chemical imbalances in the brain. But since we want practical solutions we don’t care about what happened as much as we care about the way it can be fixed or reversed. Exogenous depression is the type of depression that results from being subjected to some external influence like loss of a job, death of a close relative or a breakup.

What’s good about this type of depression is that you can get over it as soon as you find a solution to fix what happened. This solution could be a complete fix or even just acceptance of the new variables. In case of a breakup, you have one of two solutions:

1)waiting for things to return back again as they were
2)getting over the person ( accepting what happened)

I always claim that 2knowmyself gives the most practical advices ever. Acceptance, getting over someone and such advices can be done using certain well defined steps, just keep reading in order to know how can you do these things.

I will be depressed until you get him back

Your mind always uses emotions as a method to motivate you to avoid things that could harm you and to embrace things that could please you. If you used to love a person then you broke up with him, your mind will do its best to bring you back together. Unfortunately your mind can't do anything more than sending you a motivating emotion, and in this case the motivating emotion is depression!!!

It’s as if your subconscious mind is telling you, I won’t let you enjoy any of your normal life activities until you restore the relation with that person. This may sound weird but its not, it’s just a method of motivation that depends on the human nature of wanting to avoid pain. If you want not to experience these bad emotions of depression then fix the situation, says your subconscious mind. In my book How to get over anyone in few days i described how accepting the fact that the relationship is over can help people recover in no time, this happens because as soon as the mind accepts what happens the recovery process starts.

Recovering from a breakup requires nothing but finding a method to convince your subconscious mind that the relationship is over, once this is done, you will forget that person in no time.

How to get over depression that results from breakups

Now suppose that you found a good method to talk to your subconscious mind then you told him that there is no use for these emotions and that this relation can never be restored due to so and so, what do you think will happen?

In this case, if you succeeded in convincing your subconscious mind, the depression will disappear because it will realize that sending these emotions again is a useless act. Now the question is, how to convince your subconscious mind to get over someone or to accept the fact that a breakup happened? The guides below will take you to a step by step process for doing so.

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