How to make him love me more

This article is part three of the series after the two articles How to make my husband love me more and How can i love my husband again.

In this article I will continue talking about the psychological findings that were discovered that can help you make someone love you more. Of course the more techniques you use at the same time the better the results you will get and the more likely you will be able to make him love you more.

Sexual attraction is very important

Lots of researchers and experts claim that love cannot happen except if there was sexual attraction at the beginning of the relationship. When you spend some time with someone you are sexually attracted to lots of hormones are released that makes you feel good.

Usually the brain confuses this good mood with the person and believes that staying with that person was the reason for happiness instead of realizing that it was only the sexual attraction. (see Hormones that make you happy).

This means that, staying in shape, taking care of your body (whether you are a man or a woman) and losing weight if your spouse thinks that you are obese are vital ingredients in any relationship. By keeping your husband attracted to you his chemicals will make him love you more and will support your relationship.

The smell really matters

Studies found that pleasant smells that induce happy emotions can be confused with love. When someone smells something pleasant his body will produce happiness hormones and if someone else was present at that time then the person might think that he felt good because of the presence of the other person.

In short if you knew that your spouse likes the smell of a certain perfume then make sure you put it on when he is there and he will love you more.

Past fears and reassurance

When someone gets into a relationship he will usually fear that the flaws that were in his old partner might show up again in this new relationship. For example if a woman had to breakup because her husband was not honest then her biggest fear will be finding that her new husband is not honest.

Our past plays a very important rule in our decisions since the emotions that we experience while taking decisions usually stems from past fears. Your goal is to find out your spouse’s worst fears and work on reassuring him in an indirect way so that he loves you more.

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