How to restore love in a marriage

In my article the psychology of falling in love I explained how we fall in love with people who meet a certain criteria that we have in our minds which is called the subconscious mind criteria.

The reason you are currently in a relationship is that you matched the subconscious criteria of your partner.

One of the main reasons love escapes from relationships is that people give their best shots early in the relationship so that they attract their partners then stop doing the effort until they turn out to be different persons who don’t match their partner's criteria.

How to bring love back

The key to bringing love back to the relationship is to recall the reasons that made your partner fall in love with you at the beginning then doing the same things again. Did he fall in love with you because you were intelligent, persistent or beautiful?

Taking beauty as an example and considering it was one of the biggest reasons your husband liked you, caring about yourself and your looks should be one of the main goals you have in the relationship.

If you kept dressing messed up clothes if you didn’t continuously fix your hair, your nails and maintain a tidy look then your partner might become repelled from you.

In short when we start to act in a way that results in letting us lose one of the items that is listed in the subconscious criteria of our partner then love will die.

In my book How to make someone fall in love with you i explained how understanding your partner's subconscious criteria and working on matching it most of the time can make your partner love you more and can make your relationship happier.

Repositioning yourself

Start acting once again as if you just met that person and do your best to impress him. Show all of your good qualities the way you used to do it earlier, keep pointing out your skills, the advantages that you have and your partner will start to become attracted to you once again.

Once of the main reasons people start to cheat is that they find someone else who matches their subconscious mind criteria while their current partners fail to do it, if you repositioned yourself to match the criteria then your partner will fall in love with you once again.

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