I hate him

I know how it feels when you hate someone. You find yourself feeling really bad when he succeeds in doing something, when he is around and even when someone mentions his name.

This person may have bullied you, hurt you or caused you a lot of pain but in the end, hatred is nothing more than weaknesses because if you were strong enough to have other options other than hatred, you wouldn't have hated that person.

Why do people hate each other?

Hatred is always the final option available to someone's subconscious mind after all other options have ran out. Suppose that a friend of yours always bullies you, the options available for you will be tried in the following order:

Beat him in front of everyone so that he stops bullying you. But hey, what if you cant do that? then most probably you will try the next option.
Speak to him assertively and ask him never to do so again. But what if you cant do that too? then move to option three
Hate him!!! so hatred is always the final option after the person has failed to try all other options.

Hatred is weakness

If the boy in the previous example above had more power he wouldn't have hated that bully but instead he would have resolved the issue some other way. Hatred is nothing than a mechanism that keeps you away from those who posses a threat to your mental and physical well being in case you don't have any other options to defend yourself.

The next time you find yourself hating someone, ask yourself one question, "what is the kind of weakness i have that is making me hate him?". The answer to this question will give you more self understanding and will help you know that hatred is nothing more than a reflection to some kind of inner weakness.

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