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I know How it Feels

I know exactly how it feels, I know that you wish that you have never existed and I know that you wish that you were someone else, But just a second, you came to this page because you do believe in god, because you do believe in a higher power that stands behind all life events, and am sure that the real you don’t want to do it, its just a flying thought that came to your mind because there seem to be no way out, I know that the real you wish to stand and face these conditions but you are not able to.

Suicide is a Method of Escapement

Most probably you want to suicide just to escape the pain, but didn’t you just say that you believe in god? And if you believe in god then there will be an afterlife, and as you know almost all religions forbid suicide and so you won’t be escaping to a place where you can rest, you will just be moving from a smaller problem that God can solve for you to a bigger problem with God himself.

Am not asking you to face your problems now, just take a day or two as a rest, until you calm down and don’t think of anything, just try to make your mind as clear as you can, and then after you become a little more stable come back and think about it logically.

Reformation

Whatever the situation you are facing still there will be a chance for reformation, a chance for standing up again against that thing that bothered you that much, a chance for looking at what you can do rather than looking at what you cant do, a chance for looking at what tools you currently posses rather than looking at what tools you do miss .Try to seek a solution and don’t just escape, don’t let life beat you, take your breath, recharge your energy and beat life, and remember there is a God, there is someone that can help you out even if all humanity failed to help you. Do your best to get out of it, and if you failed beg God, cry to him or even scream and he will never leave you.

If you escaped to suicide no one will remember your name, but if you fought back everyone will remember it when you get out of it, collect all of the pain you are feeling and turn it into anger rather than apathy, then turn this anger into motivation and fight back using it, the only thing that makes someone wants to suicide rather than fighting back is turning his pain into apathy rather than turning it into motivation.

Promise yourself that you wont let conditions beat you down again, promise yourself that in the future you will get closer to God in order not to feel forsaken again, promise to avenge yourself and don’t just stay in the bed with a blanket above your head wishing to die, This may be your chance to turn into a warrior, a warrior who will either be living a happy life or either fighting to live a happy one.

Did that help?

Ok,but i tried to solve my problem hundreds of times but it dident work

No, i am totaly hopless, can i bring hope back?

if that's the case, why do i somtimes feel that god left me?

No,my problem can never be solved

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