Overcome depression now
What job is right for me
By M.Farouk Radwan, MSc.
Finding the right Job
In order to understand the importance of finding the right job you must first understand the next example well.
How will you feel like if you were Hungary then found nothing to eat except some food that you really hate. I am sure you are going to feel bad but what could make that situation a bit tolerable is that you know that its only a temporary one and that tomorrow you can eat better food.
But what if you were forced to eat this thing everyday ? How would your life be like? Will you be able to enjoy anything in life? I really doubt.
But what could make a person do something that he hates for years? Most probably people won’t do this, right?
No, they all do it, by choosing a career that they don’t like. If you didn't choose the right job then you will get similar feelings everyday!!
Hating your job & Finding the right one
When someone chooses a job that he dislikes his life becomes miserable. He wakes up every morning feeling bad, he gets horrible feelings while being at work, he goes home feeling worse and he spends the rest of the day feeling down.
But what could force someone to do this to himself? And why don't people find the right jobs that suits them?
This is the same question everyone who hates his job should ask himself! In order for that person to help himself feel good he tries to find excuses to help him think that he is doing the right thing.
This person relies on false beliefs such as “I can’t find another job”, “no one is satisfied with his job, I shouldn’t be too demanding” or “its too late to make a career change” to make him feel that he is doing the right thing while in fact he is only deceiving himself.
By believing in such false beliefs the person escapes the problem and hardly feels guilty for his decision.
Find the right job or become depressed!!
This trick never works for that person simply because by believing that he is helpless his subconscious mind quickly starts to make him depressed.
In my book, The ultimate guide to getting over depression i explained how ignoring your problems and keeping them behind your back can be the root cause of depression. People who ignore their problems and act as if they are not there usually end up feeling depressed while those who take actions usually feel relived even if their actions weren't strong enough.
If you hate your job and didn't think about finding the right one then certainly you will get depressed after a while.
You must understand that the beliefs you are relying on are just lies that you are using to prove to yourself that you are a victim while in fact you are not.
I am sure You feel so bad when someone lies to you then why do you lie to yourself? I know it needs some courage to admit that you are lying to yourself.
But in the end working at a job that you hate will certainly bring you more pain than the pain you will get when you admit that you were lying to yourself. If these words made any sense then read the following few lines to know how to find the right job for you.
What job Is right for me?
The job that is right for you is the job that makes you feel happy or at least satisfied while doing it.
Do you think that computer professionals have a natural ability to solve computer related problems? No, they kept doing mistakes until they learned how to fix computer problems. During the learning process they faced crashes, blue screens, viruses…etc.
They only continued learning because they loved what they were doing and that’s why in the end they become professionals.
The difference between a computer expert and a normal person who hates computers is that the first kept trying and learning until he became an expert while the other gave up too quickly because he didn’t like computers. The same exactly goes for your job, the right job that matches you will be the job that you are passionate about.
I am not saying that the only way to become good at your job is to love it but I am trying to make it clear that if you loved your job you will surly become a professional. Another important tip you must understand about finding the right job is that even if you managed to excel in a job that you hate you will spend your life feeling bad!!
I love working on 2knowmyself.com and I am making thousands of dollars out of it . if I didn’t like working on it I would have decided to quit earlier when the site used only to generate something like 0.7 dollars/day.
I kept moving on because I loved what I was doing and my reward now is that I am getting lots of money out of something that i love. For me the right job is an internet based business because i love to work alone, i hate hard work and i am really ambitious.
The right job for you is the job that gives you pleasant feelings while doing it because unless you get such feelings you might give up before you reach success.
Farouk is not only holding several degrees in psychology but he is also an MBA holder, a stock market investor and an entrepreneur. The information you are reading now can dramatically increase your chance of increasing your wealth and becoming rich. If you have any doubts regarding these statements then read what other visitors say about 2knowmyself.com.The book How I did it was written by Farouk and it explains how he managed to make a website that generates thousands of dollars/month in less than 2 years without paying a penny.
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