why am i still single, what's the reason?
Each day i get lots of mails from people who want help with certain psychological disorders they believe they are suffering from.
One of the common problems that many people are really concerned about is being single!!
I always get mails from people with questions like "Farouk i am 20 and am still single or why am still single at 30".
People are concerned about being single to the extent that they regard it as a personality disorder! In order to help those people feel more confident about themselves i decided to write this post to show them that they can be single and elite in the same time.
The second reason i wrote this post is to help single people answer those who always ask them the question "Why are you still single dear?".
Why are you still single? (10 reasons why elite people might be single)
- You are single because you know what you want: You might be still single because you are looking for the best and you don’t want to settle for average or even above average choices. In my article love addiction i explained how many people settle for incorrect choices just to get into a relationship which is something that ruins the relationship later on.
- You are still single because you are confident: Some people are still single because their expectations of themselves is so high and so they believe they deserve someone who is at least, as elite as them, and those people are rare (according to their own point of view)
- You might have fans even though you are still single: You might have caught the attention of many but few or almost no one caught your attention and that's the reason why you are still single.
- You believe you are too good for early marriage: The reason you might still be single at 30 or even 40 is that you believe that you are too Good for early marriage
- You are still single because Your Criteria is tight: You might be still single because your criteria is so tight and you might be looking for non existent potential partners. In my article Why do fall in love i said that people only fall in love with those who match a list in their minds called the subconscious list. See the article for more information about love psychology.
- You are still single because you are not desperate: The reason You might be single because is that you never chase anybody even if you like him and this might make the other person believe that you don’t want him. This means if someone played hard to get with you then you won't bother trying harder (see Does playing hard to get work)
- You are still single because of over confidence: The reason you might be still single in that Whenever you meet someone who is really good you think that you can do can do better
- You are still single because its hard to impress you: Another reason you might be still single is that you have seen so much that it became really hard to impress you. People who are impressed by anything are love addictions who have a low self esteem and who want to start any relationship just to feel good about themselves (see Love psychology
- You are single because you want a real challenge: The reason you might be still single at the age of 30 is that you don't want those who fall for you easily but you want a real challenge that satisfies your ego because you are really confident
- You are still single because you are really strong: You might be still single at your 30s or 40s because you don’t care at all about people's opinion and about those who wonder why are you still single as you know that you are elite with disregard to the opinion of others if they believe other wise
If you are still single at 30 or 40 then you might be an elite person
In the Solid Self confidence program i explained how people can either become more confident or lose their self confidence as a result of their way of thinking.
Some people consider being single a big problem and they keep asking themselves questions such as "Why am i still single at 30" or "how come i didn't get into a relationship yet".
Such questions if answered incorrectly can ruin self confidence completely and that's why i provided you with the above reasons. I didn't write those reasons to help you feel good about yourself but to prevent your self confidence from being shaken if you are still single.
The previous reasons for being single should be used as replies to your questions in your self talk as well as replies to those who ask you "why are you still single?".
Do that and you will remain confident even if you are single at the age of 40,50,60 or even 80.
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