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Reading body language, Negative Evaluation of a situation

What will happen if you were really thirsty then you opened the refrigerator to find nothing to drink. Certainly any person would experience negative feelings in such a case and the new thing you will now know is that these negative feelings will be accompanied with negative body language.

Here is another situation that could trigger negative body language. Suppose that you had an appointment for a job interview and that you were already late. What will happen if upon arriving to your car you discovered that you left the car keys at home?
Certainly that situation too will lead to negative feelings that will be accompanied by negative body language.

By understanding this negative body language you will be able to perfectly communicate with people and to know more about their current state of feeling.

Negative body language gestures

When you get negative feelings the blood capillaries in your nose will contract and you will feel like wanting to scratch it. This results in the negative body language taken in the picture below. This gesture is one of the most famous body language gestures out there because its quite common that people face many negative situations.

While giving lectures about body language many people always ask me why they never noticed themselves doing this gesture before. Your subconscious mind was designed to keep the information that is relevant to you and to discard the ones that are not of use.

Previously you never knew that this was a negative body language gesture and that's why your mind always used to discard it but now that you knew its importance you will never miss it.

In my book How to make someone fall in love with you i explained how you can use this negative gesture to know whether someone likes you or not. Just send a common friend to the person you like and let him mention anything about you getting married and then let him watch the response of the other person. If he did this negative gesture then he didn't like what he heard.

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