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The mystery behind the unknown

Some People fear dark places because they don’t know what lies in there but as soon as they discover that the place is clear their fears disappears, but why so?

Because the unknown is usually associated with mystery in people’s minds, the unknown gives the mind the space to imagine whatever it can and so make things or situations appear much mysterious than they are in reality.

How to use this information to leave a good impression

Now after knowing this, there is a very good technique that you can use to leave a very good impression, suppose you have learned body language and so you became able of knowing what other people feel just by noticing their gestures, if you went on to someone and told him “hey I know you felt confident now because I know a lot about body language” then that person will position you in his mind as the “body language guy” or the “guy who read a lot about psychology”

But what if you told that same person that you knew what is he feeling without telling him how you did it? What if you told him that you have got the ability to sense others feelings? You won’t be lying because it’s the truth. In that case this person will start to use his imagination to position you in his mind, he may think of you as mysterious, as having a good insight, as someone who has got superior social skills, as someone who can see behind things or even associate all of the previous description with you!!

As long as he don’t know, you will be well positioned in his mind

So as long as he don’t know how you did it you will appear much more mysterious than you are, the moment he knows how you did it he will discard all the previously imagined ideas about you and then stick to the realistic one which is thinking of you as the body language guy.

Don’t blow your cover, if you have any extraordinary skill never give explanation for it, because this will make people discount your skill, but if you linked it to the unknown you will have that strong effect on them.

Making people love you

Such a technique will work best with narcissists, over confident people and those with inflated egos. Of course it will work with everyone else but in my book How to make someone fall in love with you i described how impressing those three categories of people can make them fall in love with you or at least admire you. In our case, such a technique is more than enough to impress them.

2knowmysef is not a complicated medical website nor it’s a boring online encyclopedia but it’s a place where you will find simple, to the point and effective information that is presented in a simple and obvious way. If you think that this is some kind of marketing hype then see what other visitors say about 2knowmyself.The book How to make someone fall in love with you was released by 2knowmyself.com; the book will dramatically increase your chance of letting someone fall in love with you.

Did that help?

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