Falling in love

Earlier I used to think that falling in love is a random process that follows no rules but few years later when I started reading more about love’s psychology I found that the process is not random but there are strict rules that govern it.

Over the years a newly born child starts to form an image of his dream partner based on all of the childhood experiences he goes through. This unique combination of his culture, his values, his unmet needs and his past experiences constructs the criteria that determines the person he is going to fall in love with later on.

Why do we fall in love

People fall in love when they meet someone who meets most of the criteria they have built over the years. The good news is that you can take advantage of this fact by changing your behavior to make someone fall in love with you.

Suppose that you found a way to find someone’s unconscious criteria and then found another way to show him that you meet these criteria? Won’t he fall in love with you?

Surely he will fall in love with you because people fall in love when someone matches their unconscious criteria.

How to make someone love you

Matching the criteria is not a difficult task as it seems. It can even be considered an easy task provided that you do the right steps. All what you need to do is to find out that person’s unconscious criteria and then program his subconscious mind in such a way that he believes that you match his criteria.

In my book How to make someone fall in love with you i said that information collection is the most important part of this process. In fact the easy part is matching the criteria and the challenging part is getting to know every possible fact about that person's past.

Is it ethical to make someone fall in love with you?

Fooling a person into thinking that you match his criteria while you don't may not be ethical but if you really love someone then you could truly change yourself in such a way that you match his criteria.

In both cases the person will fall in love with you, so its up to you which method you choose. I am completely against fooling a person and i strongly discourage any attempt to fool someone even if the goal was to make him love you.

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