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Falling in love

Earlier I used to think that falling in love is a random process that follows no rules but few years later when I started reading more about love’s psychology I found that the process is never random, but they are strict rules that govern it.

Over the years a newly born child starts to form an image of his dream partner based on all of the situations he goes through. This unique combination of his culture, his values, his unmet needs and his past experiences constructs the criteria for his dream partner and so he falls in love with the person who matches this criteria.

There are rules

People fall in love when they meet someone who meets most of the criteria they have built over the years, but since these criteria are based on many factors that are related to that person’s background they could be subject to manipulation.

Suppose that you found a way to scan for someone’s criteria and then found another way to show him that you meet these criteria? Won’t he fall in love with you then?

Surely he will fall in love with you; people fall in love when someone matches their unconscious criteria. So if someone convinced you that he matches your criteria you will definitely fall in love with him.

How to match the criteria?

Matching the criteria is not a difficult task as it seems, it can even be considered an easy task. All what you need to do is to scan for that person’s criteria and then program his subconscious mind in such a way that he becomes convinced that you match his criteria.

This is mainly what the book “How to make someone fall in love with you” teaches you. The book will tell you to scan for someone’s criteria and then it will tell you how to match his criteria in such a way that he falls in love with you.

Is this ethical?

Fooling someone into thinking that you match his criteria may not be ethical but if you really love someone then you should change yourself in such a way that you match his criteria. In both cases the person will fall in love with you but in the first case you will be fooling him and in the second case you will be changing yourself in order to win his heart.

2knowmyself is, without doubt, the only complete source for the psychology of falling in love on the whole web. If you dare to challenge this statement then check out the psychology of falling in love section and you will discover it yourself.

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