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Losing interest in a relationship

Have you ever wondered why do some guys lose interest in a relationship few days after they make sure that the girl loves them?

What's really weird about this is that before the guy loses interest he seems to be deeply in love with that person as if he will never lose interest in her. Just like everything else, lack of understanding makes it appear to be weird but as soon as you get the understanding everything becomes clear.

Is he losing interest?

Suppose that someone told you that you could never score high in mathematics or that you could never succeed in a certain exam, Wont you feel like wanting to prove to everyone that you can? maybe yes and maybe no, but what happens with most people is that they fight to prove to others that they can.

So what if someone told you that you can never succeed in making someone love you?
or what if someone told you that you can never succeed in attracting someone from a certain social class or cultural background?

Wont you be eager to prove it to them? yes you will and this is one of the strongest reasons that makes people go into relationships. They just want to prove to themselves and to others that they can attract someone!! their subconscious minds ties their egos to being loved by someone and so they think that they are in love with him/her, but as soon as they reach their goal they no longer become attracted to that person because they no longer need a proof.

No one ever told me so

I know that maybe no one ever told you that you cant succeed in doing so but the problem is that most people try to prove it to themselves and not to others because they have self doubts!! Your self doubts and your lack of self confidence are the things that made you eagerly wanting to succeed in making someone love you.

Some people lose interest in relationships because the desire to make the other person love them didn't stem from real love but rather from the need to prove to themselves that they are capable of attracting a certain person.

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