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they don’t like me

It feels bad when you feel that you are not welcomed, it feels bad when you find that everyone around you is interested in talking to someone else while no one is caring for you, it feels bad when you find that people don’t like you or that they dont enjoy your company.

loneliness and feeling that you are not welcomed

One of the main causes of loneliness is feeling that people are not welcoming you or feeling that they people don’t like you ,in that case it becomes so hard to share your emotions or experience with them and so you may end up feeling lonely.

After all loneliness is lack of intimate relationships, how could you form intimate relationships with people that don’t like you? (or at least that you think they don’t)

how to overcome this type of loneliness?

if you are really serious about overcoming this type of loneliness then the first thing you should do is making sure that those people does really hate you, after all these may be just illusions and it may be just your lack of self confidence that lead you to think so,when seeking answers to these questions better take care because if you were convinced that they hate you your mind will pick up every clue that proofs this idea and will ignore all other clues that may contradict with your belief of being not welcomed (see the article you get what you focus on in order to understand how does this work).

after making sure of your answer, move on to doing the following steps:

• in case it was an illusion: if you found that people doesn’t really hate you then probably your problem is self confidence rooted, don’t wait anymore run to building your self confidence as fast as you can and you wont experience those feelings of being unwanted again.
• in case you made sure that they don’t like you: if that was the case then don’t waste your time with those people, Suppose that I told you that you are a bad person and that I don’t like you, does this mean that you are really a bad person? No its just my opinion, I may be lacking judgement or I may have any other reason that made me hate you (see the rejection section to know more those reasons), go and expand your relations, leave behind anyone who didn’t give you your proper weight nor who had not valued you correctly, know that having people who hate you is something normal, everyone should have enemies just like he should have friends, but when you discover your enemies, treat them as enemies and not as people you try to get close to as much as you can.

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Did that help

No, I don’t know many other people

The problem is that people only want you when you are happy

Yes, tell me how to build my self confidence

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