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How to overcome rejection from a guy, a girl or anyone else

By M.Farouk Radwan, MSc.

How to overcome rejection from a guy, a girl or anyone else

how to overcome rejection sensitivity?
how to overcome rejection from a guy or a girl?
how to overcome rejection in a relationship?

These are normal questions that i get often on my email from readers of the website. I am not just talking about overcoming rejection that is related to a relationship but i am also talking about each and every rejection you get even if it was related to your career or any other life field.

Do you know why rejection hurts so badly? I would be lying if i told you that there is only one reason that prevents people from overcoming rejection quickly because there are many ones.

However One very powerful reason that prevents people from overcoming rejections is that a part of them acknowledges this rejection.

In order to overcome rejection from a girl, a guy or from anyone else you need to read this article.

Overcoming rejection from a guy, a girl or anyone else

Scott was a brilliant guy. He was destined to succeed and to reach what he wanted until one day a guy criticized him by telling him that his current career doesn't suit his personality.

Scott resigned from his job the same day and started looking for another one in order to change his career.

huh! why did Scott change his career! how can a rejection from one guy force him to find a different path?

Scott decided to change his career because he acknowledged this rejection and because he believed the guy who rejected him!!

Acknowledging a rejection means believing in it and even start changing your life course as a result of it.

How many times a rejection from a girl made you think that you are not worthy?
How many times a rejection letter made you think that you are dumb?
How many times you changed your life plans as a result of a rejection that you got?

If you want to ever overcome rejections then you must understand that unless you say to the person who rejected you that he is wrong you will never get over this rejection.

Overcoming rejection by saying you are wrong!!

When i first submitted my website to get a Google adsense application in 2006 the application was rejected!! Imagine receiving such a rejection before you even start!!
I didn't know at that time that the application was rejected because the site was offline at the time of review.

Today i am a dot com millionaire because of that same site (see my book How i did it). Had i acknowledged this rejection i would have never managed to overcome it and i would have been living a completely different life then the one i am living now.

The secret to overcoming rejection from a guy, a girl or anyone in the world is to tell the person who rejected you that he is WRONG!!

I KNOW THAT YOU ARE WRONG

Of course you shouldn't tell him that they he wrong by words but instead you must:

Tell employers who rejected you that they are wrong by succeeding in your career
Tell members of the other sex who rejected you that they are wrong by becoming popular and desirable
Tell people who reject you that they are wrong by succeeding in doing the thing that they told you that you can't do
Tell anyone who rejects you that he is wrong by showing him few months later that you were right
Tell those who reject you and put you down that they are wrong by having faith in your self.

This is how you can overcome rejection. By telling everyone who rejects you that he is wrong and then proving him wrong later on.

"Head strong to take on anyone
I know that you are Wrong , Head strong because we are headstrong
I Know that you are Wrong"

Few lines taken from the lyrics of the song headstrong that contain the concept that can help anybody overcome rejection from anyone.

I have managed to become a self made millionaire at the age of 28. This didn't happen by chance because i already wrote that goal down five years before i accomplished it. Becoming rich is not about luck, starting big or being intelligent but its all about having certain beliefs about money and life.

In The Ultimate guide to becoming rich i will teach you everything that you need to know in order to become rich.

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