The Ultimate Source for Self Understanding , getting more than 300,000 visits each month

recovering faster

what can slow down your recovery

the main thing that can get someone stuck between the bargaining stage and deression stage is the type of actions he does during that period, whether its the music he hears or whether its the places he goes to (that reminds them of his old memories with his partner). both actions keep on feeding his subconscious mind with one idea, that is he cant live without his old partner.

beware of romantic songs

this idea can be very destructive to your life especially if the possibility of restoring your old relationship is low, the correct action should be cutting completely all the connections to your old memories, yes memories could visit you but still you should resist until they leave you alone, romantic songs will only feed the same idea to your subconscious mind.

some romantic songs tend to install another ideas in your mind like "life will be dull until that person gets back or until this relation is restored", who said so?? you can still be happy with someone else, and you can still be happy alone until you find someone else. don't fill your mind with junk, don't listen to songs that teach you how to be broken or how to be down and stay down, don't listen to songs that ties your salvation to any external person whatever it is, control your life.

The book How to make someone fall in love with you was released by 2knowmyself.com; the book will dramatically increase your chance of letting someone fall in love with you.2knowmyself is, without doubt, the best source for dealing with breakups on the whole internet. If you think that this is some kind of marketing hype then see the relationships & breakups directory and you will discover this fact yourself

anymore questions?

yeah what is the subconscious mind?

no thanks, i feel great now

I didn't find my question here.How to make someone fall in love with me? (book)

How to get over anyone in few days? (book)

Click here to see all 2knowmyself's books


always a brother - they are getting married

keith4295's picture
Mon, 02/25/2008 - 17:13
keith4295

A two question problem in one post:

1. I have run across many times, the women I meet and talk to end up telling me:
You are like a brother to me, I can talk to you about anything......
To me that's the kiss of Death. I have several REAL sisters, I don't need any more. I would like to be a boyfriend to them instead of a brother image.
WHAT is going on ???

2. The past 5 relationships I have had they end up getting married to the next guy after a relationship with me.................WHAT am I doing wrong.

(new to the site.. this is

Gretel's picture
Sun, 04/06/2008 - 00:42
Gretel

(new to the site.. this is my first comment.. testing how this works..)

Hi Keith,
It's possible that from the very beginning you've been acting too nice and caring towards them to the point that they get a bit sick of it. Maybe these women just don't know how to appreciate you, and they are looking for someone "they can't have".. Usually "I like you as a brother" means "I really don't want to hurt you coz you're a good guy; I'm guilty, yeah. But I want to meet other guys because I think I can do better."
Or sometimes, they simply aren't -physically- attracted to the brother type.
Either way, I sense that you're a decent guy, you deserve someone who can equally reciprocate your affections.