self image and self confidence

One of the strongest reasons that could make someone lack self confidence is Putting much weight to looks while in the same time not liking his looks. Yes looks may be important but it’s never everything, think of everything that you have as a package, this package may contain items that have points of strength and points of weaknesses but when it comes to evaluation, the whole package should be evaluated and not just one item (which is looks in this case).

putting much weight to self image

We have been brought up in way that thought us how to give a big importance to the appearance of things rather than their true value, and based on these teachings some of us started to like themselves because they look good and others started to hate their self and body image because they thought that they didn’t look good.

Know that you are not your looks, looks is just one of your hundreds of qualities, know that you will never be a confident person unless you reduce the weight of your self image in your evaluation system. Only then you will be able to know your real value.

how to do it

These are just not motivating words, this is something that is very practical, you can reduce the weight you put to looks by training, whenever you start to think of yourself as bad because you don’t like your looks just discard the idea and even challenge it, challenge it by saying that looks is only one item and never everything, challenge by saying that your package as a whole is a good one and looks wont affect my whole valuation much. Keep on challenging these ideas until you unlearn these patters of thinking, only you can be confidence even if you were not that handsome.

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