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poor self image and the Icerberg concept

Have you ever seen an iceberg, even in pictures?? I am sure that the main thing that caught your attention about it was that ninety percent of its mass was below the surface of the water while only ten percent of it was visible to the eye. Same goes for you, ninety percent of you should be invisible, looks are only ten percent of your identity.You are not your looks!!

Moreover beauty is something that is 100% relative, there is no common agreed upon standard for being beautiful, and through time the idea about beauty have changed many times to even extremes of characteristics. So considering yourself ugly may be incorrect. looking good or ugly is somthing that is perspective dependant. Some people may dislike your looks but still others will do, some person may tell you that you are looking good while another person may tell you that you are ugly!! why is that? it just depends on his own background and not on your looks!

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did that help?

0k,but its still important to be looking good

My problem is that i dont like some of my face features (big nose,big lips...etc)

what did you mean by depending on his own background?

ok but what if my partner care about looks?

i missed the intro,take me to the self image main page