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lack of self confidence in different situations

Do you feel more confident when accompanying some people yet you do feel less confident in the company of others?
Are you wondering why is this happening?
The answer to this question is very simple; you do see yourself from their perspective and not from yours.

why do I lack self confidence in the company of some people?

You do lack self confidence in the company of some people because you perceive yourself from their own perspective, for example if those people perceive you as a boring person, the first thing you will think of when meeting them is that you are a boring person and so you will start to feel less confident while being with them.

Few hours later after you leave those people and head for your close friends; you found that you are not feeling that you are lacking self confidence. Why is that? Again because you perceive yourself from the perspective of your friends, they don’t think that you are boring and so you don’t consider yourself boring, and so you don’t feel that you are lacking self confidence.

ok how to feel self confident in the company of any one

The previous problem will happen only if you consider people’s opinion as unchangeable facts, some people deal with critic comments from other people as if they are god’s words, as if they are facts. They belief that they are what other people think of them!!!

Who said so?? You are not their opinion!! You are your own opinion, you are the only one who knows the real you, no one can judge you except you. Yes you can accept some critic comments but you shouldn’t feel bad as soon you get criticised, you should examine the comment well to see if this its true or not.

If you trained yourself well to build your own idea about yourself then you will have the same level of confidence everywhere you go to, and you will never feel less confident in the company of other people.

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Did that help?

No, my problem is that I experience lack of self confidence in some situations while I feel confident in other situations with disregard to the presense of people

No, people’s opinion about me is very important, how come that you say its not??