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Why are some people needy
By M.Farouk Radwan, MSc.
Why are some people needy?
In a typical relationship you will usually finds the person who calls less often and the one who keeps calling all day.
Why would someone call the one he loves 20 times a day? Isn't one call enough?
Why are some people needy?
Before i can answer this question i have to fist tell you more about psychological needs. Starting from early childhood all kids try to find a way to satisfy their important needs.
The need to be loved, the need to be cared for, the need to be right and the need to feel important are all examples of psychological needs that most people try to meet.
Now what do you think will happen if a person failed to satisfy one of these very important needs? Or even worse what do you think will happen if a child was deprived of one of those needs?
As you might have already guessed this person will try to find other ways to satisfy this need and this is how a needy person is born.
Examples of needy people
What to do if you are a needy person
If you are a needy person then you need to realize that you are trying to complete your past unfinished business. Something wrong happened in your past that motivated you to become a needy person.
You won't be able to solve this neediness problem before you understand the exact reason behind it.
Once you understand this basic need that made you who you are its time to find other ways to satisfy it. Lets suppose that you wanted to feel worthy, instead of calling people all day to make sure that they like your company you can work on achieving a big goal that brings you self satisfaction.
In other words, you can satisfy that same need in a completely different way without annoying the people you know.
Being needy is usually connected with low self esteem. If you managed to increase your self esteem then your needy behavior will disappear on its own.
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