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Why do people give up on their dreams

By M.Farouk Radwan, MSc.

Why do people give up on their dreams

Why do people give up on their dreams?
There was once a fox that wanted to eat some delicious cherries. Because the cherries were hanging from a branch that was high above the ground the fox had to keep jumping and jumping in order to reach them.

After lots of tries and a long while the fox gave up on his dreams by claiming that he didn't want the cherries anyways because they would have tasted bad!!

While this is not a true story it represents exactly the way we human beings react to lost dreams. People don't just give up on their dreams directly but they twist facts then claim that they didn't want them anyways!!

How do people give up their dreams

But Why do people give up on their dreams that way?
It would hurt their Egos so much to admit that they weren't able to reach their dreams and that they gave up on them. Because of that people try to create lies that help them get out of trouble safely.

By assuming that they were going in the wrong direction, that they didn't want that dream so badly or even that it wasn't the right choice for them people escape from the responsibility and protect their egos.

In the Solid Self confidence program i said that People don't just give up on their dreams directly but instead they gradually start altering their beliefs about their dreams then in the end they settle for things that are far less than the ones they were dreaming of.

Not only do people do this but they start to act as if they are happy and not in need of the things they really dreamed of long ago.

How to not give up on your dreams

The worst thing that could ever happen to a person is not failing to reach his dream but its claiming that the dream was never there.

I am not asking you to reach your dreams in the first attempt because that might not be possible but all i am asking you is to never create lies that would make you feel comfortable about giving up your dreams.

You had those dreams because you wanted them so badly and even if you managed to live a lie that prevented you from feeling bad sooner or later you will rediscover the truth and you will feel really bad.

Don't give up on your dreams, don't deceive yourself and fight to the end until you reach them.

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