Why self talk is important and effective

By M.Farouk Radwan, MSc.

Am i going crazy?

During many times i get emails from readers who are worried about becoming crazy because they talk to themselves. The first thing you need to know about self talk is that it's a very healthy habit that all normal people do.

Whether you are talking to yourself in your head or out loud using sound you are still considered a normal and healthy person.

Self talk is an extremely important process that can heal you, improve your self confidence and make you happier. In this article i will tell you why self talk is extremely important. See also Why do i talk to myself so much

The friend living within

Before you can understand why self talk is important you need to know a very important concept about the subconscious mind. The subconscious mind is like an independent person living inside of you.

This person can object to what you are doing and so work against you. The perfect example for this situation is lack of motivation where you want to do something but lack the energy to do it.

In such a case your subconscious mind is working against you because you didn't manage to convince it to believe in whatever you are doing. See Is your mind working against you?.

This independent person can change your emotions and your mental state if it didn't agree with something that you are doing. In other words the subconscious mind should be treated like an independent entity in order for you to be able to interact with it perfectly.

Why self talk is extremely important

Now that you understood the previous concept it's time to know how important self talk can be:

  • 1) It enables communication with the subconscious mind: In the Ultimate guide to developing Super powers i said that self talk is one of the most powerful methods that can be used to convince the subconscious mind to do something. Self talk allows the communication between the conscious and the subconscious mind to take place and so can lead to so many benefits
  • 2) It allows venting to happen: When i talked about expressive therapy in a previous article i said that any method that can allow you to vent can be considered a form of therapy. When you talk to yourself you will actually vent some of your suppressed emotions and you will feel better about yourself
  • 3) It tells you what's going on in your mind: When i do coaching for clients i sometimes ask them to monitor their self talk for a day or two then get back to me. Monitoring one's self talk can provide various insights about one's feelings, beliefs and emotional problems. In other words self talk is a perfect self understanding tool. See How to understand yourself
  • 4) It can lead to problem resolution: Sometimes the only step needed to end emotional pain, to accept what happened or to motivate yourself to do something is doing proper self talk. Self talk can be used to convince the subconscious mind to co-operate, to motivate you and to end bad emotions. See How to negotiate with your subconscious mind

How to make your self talk more effective

First of all you need to dedicate some time for self talk. This time will allow you to find out what's happening in your subconscious mind. This self talk time will also help you remember your important goals and plans.

You should also start your self talk right after you face a serious problem or when you feel emotionally distressed. Your self talk can help you organize yourself and start over once again. See also How to turn disappointment into opportunity.

If you can learn how to monitor your internal self talk you will be doing yourself a great favor for you will reach a high level of self understanding in a very short period of time.

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