Do you know how your personality and interests develop?
No matter who you are or where you come from you will develop certain needs during your life ,specifically during your childhood, that your mind will be eager to satisfy.
A child who develops an intense need for attention might became a successful actor for example. The child who develops a strong need to help others might become a doctor to satisfy this need.
The different life situations that we go through define our needs, wants and desires to a great extent. This means that no matter who you are you will always have a built in life purpose that is based on your psychology and core needs.
When people approach the purpose of life topic they always approach it from the wrong angle. Most people try to look for purpose because they believe a purpose is an important thing without realizing that this purpose is already existing in their brains because of the way they were raised. See How to find my goals in my life
It's the same as a person who eats food because he thinks that food is useful for making them healthy without realizing that their body actually needs food to survive because it was built that way.
A life purpose isn't something that you acquire for it's an already existing part of you that you didn't yet manage to discover.
The more you learn about psychology the more you will discover that the one major cause of most psychological problems is lack of courage. So many people try to deny the fact that they have a life purpose or even try to never look for it by claiming that life should not be purpose driven.
In my book The 5 Minute Happiness Formula i said that real happiness can never happen before you manage to satisfy your most important core needs.
By ignoring your core needs and claiming that your life is purposeless you are actually forcing yourself to become a sad and miserable person.
So many people don't have enough courage to admit that they need very important things that they don't currently have. Those things don't necessarily have to be material, in fact most of those needs are psychological needs such as the need for recognition, the need for success and many other needs.
Those who don't have enough courage might try to convince themselves that their needs are not that important and as a result they might start ignoring those needs.
Those people might then start to believe in different mottos such as happiness is journey not a destination, life is all about enjoying the current moment and all the similar mottos that discourage thinking about the future & the big picture.
When you try to deprive your subconscious mind of its core needs then it will always respond back with all forms of resistance that we sometimes call psychological disorders.
Depression, Panic attacks, severe mood swings, unexplained bad moods and many other problems are no more than ways of rebelling that your mind uses to remind you of what's truly important to you.
The moment you decide to ignore your core needs, or your life purpose, is the same moment where your subconscious mind will start rebelling in different ways.
In my book, The ultimate guide to getting over depression i said that depression happens when your subconscious mind loses hope in getting something that you really want. This loss of hope can happen as soon as you claim that this need of yours isn't that important.
You do not have to search for a life purpose for that life purpose was already coded in your brain years or even decades ago. You just need to be brave enough to admit that you have a big mission and to start fighting for it.
And if you think you don't have a mission then ask yourself those questions:
Do i really have everything i want?
Is this where i wanted to be?
Am i really happy?
Is this the kind of life i want to be living for the rest of my life?
In few seconds you will have all the answers you were looking for.
I have managed to become a self made millionaire at the age of 28. This didn't happen by chance because i already wrote that goal down five years before i accomplished it. Becoming rich is not about luck, starting big or being intelligent but its all about having certain beliefs about money and life.
In The Ultimate guide to becoming rich i will teach you everything that you need to know in order to become rich.
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