How to gain self Confidence

Contrary to common beliefs there are no people who lack self confidence but there are those who were born confident then learned how not to be confident!!

All children are born confident; they even think that they are the center of the world and that everybody is there to serve them. Self centered people are those who failed to move on from the stage of thinking that they are the centre of the world to the stage where they know that they live among other humans.

you were born confident!!!

A child can keep trying to do the same thing for hours without losing hope, without feeling broken and without losing confidence. A child falls hundreds of times before he learns how to walk and still he doesn’t lose hope. A baby may try to fix a broken doll for tens of times without feeling bored or sad.

So why do we lose hope as grown ups and why do we lack self confidence as grown ups although we were confident children? It’s because we learned how not to become confident!! We were taught how to lose hope and how to become afraid before we try something new. We learned how to become anxious and how to feel stressed whenever we faced uncertainties, we learned how to not become ourselves and how to limit our abilities with false ideas. Know that you were born confident and that you lack no confidence genes (because they don’t exist) but you just acquired some unhealthy beliefs that led you to feel that you lack self confidence.

So after all those new beliefs are what's responsible for the lack of self confidence and not your true self. People usually misunderstand this concept and think that they are defective but the truth is that their true selves are just covered by some dust of false ideas that hides their real identities.

How to build self confidence?

Instead of saying I want to build my self confidence or gain self confidence say I want to rebuild my self confidence or I want to regain my self confidence. Even if you aren’t feeling it now, it’s the reality.

The best way you can regain your self confidence is removing those self ideas you learned throughout your life. The guide below will help you go through step by step process of rebuilding your self confidence so that you can become your true self once again.

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