Why Do We Fall In Love

Why Do We Fall In Love?

You were walking down the street, nothing was unsual and then suddenly she came out from a nearby shop and it happened that you fell in love with her at first sight! Huhh!! What happened?!!

The answer is simple, its all related to how your mind works. If you are single or currently not involved in a relationship, your mind will always be on a hunt for your long awaited partner, even if you think that you don't care about that now, if someone did match your criteria then you will fall in love with them.

But why she? Why not someone else?

Each one of us has got some kind of a check list stored into his/her mind which includes some criteria that the other person must meet in order to qualify as someone who could be loved by him/her. If any of the listed items was not matched then the person becomes disqualified and you just think of him/her as a friend. The items in your check list are of course unique and specific depending on your background, values, and beliefs. Lets see an example of the first three lines of a check list of a person called X. X is a guy and his list starts with the following three conditions:

1- She must be from the same educational background.

2- Her hair must be black.

3- She must be assertive.

If X is currently not involved in any relationship and he met a new blonde girl, most likely he won't consider her as qualified to be loved by him because she doesn't match condition number two. By the way, if someone passed all of the conditions that still is not a guarantee that they will be loved by the person with the list, but instead they will just be qualified; and whether the person may love the qualifee or not depends on many other factors. In some very rare cases the check list could be strongly violated which is the case of unconditional love.

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did that help?

sounds logic , but what are the other reasons for loving someone that you mentioned?

how do i know if that person loves me?

my problem is that i rarely fall in love

my problem is that i get anxious on trying to approach him/her

the problem is that i can't forget him/her

what do you mean by unconditional love??

Does love at first sight really exist?

Why do i somtimes fall in love with someone right after i know that he loves me?

What about falling in love with someone i never met?

How to love myself??.

I didn't find my question here.