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Reasons For Loving Somone

There are many reasons that could make you fall in love with someone else, these reasons include the following:

1- That person looks much like someone that you love or someone that you have loved before, i.e. your mother if you were a guy, or your father if you were a girl. Of course he/she is not going to be a perfect match but some facial traits may be similar. not only this but you may fall in love with someone just because he looks like someone you have hurt before, in my book How to get over anyone in few days i pointed out how can guilt be one of the reasons you cant get over a person you love. In such a case dealing with guilt can be the solution to getting over that person.

2- Someone that has got something that you miss or need, for example a dark guy may be attracted to a white girl, a low confidence girl would be attracted to someone who is assertive and confident. On further thought, this is a healthy approach because whatever your offspring, your children will tend to be more balanced. If this was the only method of selection, every generation is going to be more balanced than the one before it.

3- That person is similar to you in some things that you think are essential, for example sharing the same way of thinking or beliefs and ideas. For example a religious guy would be more interested in a girl who has some kind of connection to religion.

4- Summing two and three we can say that the person may be looking for traits that are opposite to what he/she dislikes about him/herself (see love and compensation), and similar to what that he/she likes about him/herself.

It's your mind that loved that person

So after all, it's your mind that determines whether you are going to love someone or whether you are going to hate them, then emotions come into play after your mind has taken the decision. The book How to make someone fall in love with you was released by 2knowmyself.com; the book will dramatically increase your chance of letting someone fall in love with you. 2knowmyself is, without doubt, the only complete source for the psychology of falling in love on the whole web. If you dare to challenge this statement then check out the psychology of falling in love section and you will discover it yourself.

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My mind !! how come that you do say so ??

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