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Why Can’t I Love Someone?

If you are wondering why you don’t fall in love often, or if your problem is that you get loved but you rarely love someone else then read further to know the causes for that and how to change them, that is if you want to!

The Reasons You Rarely Fall In Love

• You may not be an externally dependant person: You should be happy if that’s the reason you rarely fall in love because lack of external dependency is a reflection of personal stability and strength.
  External Dependency is being dependant on other factors or objects in order to feel happy or in order to escape your bad emotions, just like some people resort to drugs in order to feel happy, others would resort to loving someone in order to experience new emotions that make them forget their current ones.
• You have visual representation system: If your mind used the visual representation system then most probably you won't fall in love with someone unless he/she is good looking. Yes, there may be lots of good looking people around but they may not be matching your other criteria too. By putting a strong emphasis on looks you are making your search criteria tighter and so decreasing your chance of loving someone.
• Your unconscious criteria for choosing a future partner is very tight: Of course when you love someone you unconsciously feel that you love him and that’s why I used the word unconscious criteria. Your task in that case is knowing yourself more in order to identify this criteria then see if its logical or just way too far from reality, and if you found that its far, try removing some of the parameters.
• You have the power of solitude: Some people can't stay alone, they always need to be with someone else because they can't handle their mood swings or emotions. On the contrary people who have the power of solitude may even enjoy staying alone, that’s another good point about your personality.

Final Words

If you are taking love seriously - you want to end it up by marriage - then no need to rush. The more cautious you will be in your selection the better your choice will be. Don’t just fall for the same mistake that many people make, that is choose anyone on their way in order to rush things up.

The book How to make someone fall in love with you was released by 2knowmyself.com; the book will dramatically increase your chance of letting someone fall in love with you. 2knowmyself is, without doubt, the only complete source for the psychology of falling in love on the whole web. If you dare to challenge this statement then check out the psychology of falling in love section and you will discover it yourself.

Did that help?

yes,but tell me more about external dependency

yes but tell me more about the power of solitude

yes but i want know why do people fall in love?