How to get over someone you work with

Getting over any person is not as hard as it seems, if you sticked to certain guidelines and followed them by hard then you won’t face any difficulties getting over someone you work with. People usually have a hard time getting over breakups because they either don’t know what to do to get over over them or they either know what to do but lack discipline to apply it. Whether you work with a person or whether he is just a friend stick to the following guidelines and you will get over him easily and in a short period of time.

Getting over someone you work with

As soon as someone breakups with someone else withdrawal symptoms start to surface because of the loss of something that the person was used to. Who is going to take care of you and who is going to nurture you when you feel down or bad? If you managed to let few days pass without reminding yourself of that person every few minutes and while convincing yourself that its over then you will get over that person in no time.

People usually do the opposite of this, as soon as they breakup they do the following actions:

• Start programming themselves with negative media and depressing songs. These songs programs your mind and convinces it that there is no way out. It was found that those who listen to such songs take a much longer time before they recover than those who don't. (For more information see subconscious mind programming and psychology of convincing)
• They go the same places they used to go to together. Just as I said, you need to convince your mind that its over not that there is still some hope
• They keep visualizing themselves with their old partner in addition to day dreaming. Visualizing is a more dangerous form of subconscious mind programming, you visualize food before you find yourself wanting to eat, you visualize yourself unable to talk in a presentation and you do what you visualized perfectly and you visualize yourself with your old partner then stay broken forever.
• They keep bargaining, whenever the phone rings they rush to see who is calling wishing it's that their old partner, they keep visiting their old partner’s facebook or my myspace profile and they even call him trying to bring things back to normal. In my book How to get over anyone in few days i explained how bargaining can be the main reason that prevents people from recovery. Your mind needs acceptance in order to recover and as long as you are bargaining you are telling your mind, “hey wait, there is still some hope lets try again, don’t accept it yet”
• They keep convincing themselves that he was one and that’s why they wont find someone like him. Of course if your mind believed in the one concept then you will never recover. There are no ones, the media fooled us, there are lots of potential partners out there and you just met one of them, still you can meet lots of other ones and love them too.(see the one)

But I do work with him

It wont matter, as long as you keep telling yourself that its over, as long as you don’t think of him while being alone, as long as you stop looking at him every two minutes, as long as you stop going to the same places you used to go to together and as long you stop listening to depressing media then it wont matter whether he is with you at work or even at home.

You can even make working with that person an advantage that helps you to recover faster, the more your subconscious mind sees that person and knows that its over the more it will accept the fact that you broke up, on the other hand, the more you see him and wish that you get back together the more you will be telling your subconscious mind not to accept it.

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