How to attract someone out of your league

How can you attract someone out of your league?

The first mistake you already did before you even started is that you believed that this person is out of your league. Yes i know that there are people out there who are more resourceful than you and that you sometimes feel inferior to them but let me tell you a very important thing in the attraction game, According to the psychology of attraction people get attracted to those who have a higher total score than them or at least a similar one.

In other words in order for you to attract someone you must let him believe that you are as good as him or even better. Now when you believe that someone is out of your league you will act according to this mindset and the result is that you will let him believe that you are a no good match for him.

The first thing you need to do in order to attract someone out of your league is to believe that he is not out of your league at all.

Steps for Attracting someone out of your league

After you fix your mindset its time to go for the next steps, which are:

Know that you are dealing with a human being: This person you want to attract is a human being who have weaknesses, insecurities and fears that are well hidden behind his apparent resources. You felt that he is out of your league because you looked at these resources while forgetting that he is a human being.
Status is perception dependent: You don't have to be extremely beautiful or extremely wealthy in order for people to think so, You just have to control people's perception. Be mysterious and only reveal little parts of the puzzle that would tempt the other person to build an imaginary perception of you. The human mind can't withstand curiosity and as soon as you give little info about yourself the person you are trying to attract will try to complete the puzzle by guessing the missing info.(see How to become more attractive)
Use common friends to alter perception: Now that you knew that its all about the perceived perception its time to use common friends to let the person believe that you are the one out of his league!! Remember you can only attract a person who he believes that you are like him or even better than him. By letting common friends alter the perception of the person you are trying to attract he will think that you are like him or even better. In my book How to make someone fall in love with you i explained how you can change someone's perception of you by just letting common friends talk about you behind your back
Don't be a nice guy but don't challenge the person's ego: If you believed that someone is out of your league then most probably this person is aware that he is more resourceful than others. In such a case being a nice guy will only result in letting you be added to his fans list, On the other hand, being arrogant will trigger the person's ego and he might force him to avoid you completely. Attracting someone out of your league is all about not being a nice guy and in the same time not being arrogant, its something in between

Final words about attracting someone who is out of your league

Attraction is all about perception. If you managed to let a person think that you have a higher total score or at least a similar one then he will find you attractive even if you believed that he is out of your league.

Its also all about the mindset because the way you think of yourself affects your posture, body language and actions. If you deeply believed that someone is out of your league you will always be unsure of yourself around him and you will never manage to attract him.

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