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what’s the problem with indifference

Indifference is the state of feeling where you just don’t care about taking an action, the problem with indifference is that sometimes you are aware that doing that thing or taking that action will get you much benefit but still you do nothing, indifference is not like lack of motivation because you may lack motivation if you are not aware of the importance of the activity, however if you are aware but still take no action then you are indifferent.

what are the causes of indifference?

The causes of indifference could be :

• loss of hope: you just don’t feel that your efforts will yield any result, so you become indifferent, because in your point of view taking an action will not change anything
• depression: if I were asked to define depression, I would have said it’s a severe case of loss of hope. Depression is the strongest factor that can make you indifferent. yes depression is caused by chemical imbalance but the chemical imbalance itself stems from the person's inability to deal with a certain life problem. In my book, The ultimate guide to getting over depression i explained how depression can be nothing more than a message sent to your by your subconscious mind telling you that hope is lost. Restore hope, take actions or find a way to respond to your subconscious mind and your depression will disappear.
• skepticism: that’s where religious indifference come from, some people just totally ignore the idea of doing good deeds and avoiding bad deeds, in many cases that happens because they are either skeptic or have become skeptic after they have faced some kind of experience that shook their religious beliefs
• Learned helplessness: After failing to do something many times or after putting much effort without seeing a result someone people tend to develop something called learned helplessness, which is a state where the person believes that whatever effort he is going to do still there wont be any result. Learned helplessness is another major cause for indifference. (See learned helplessness For more information on this topic)

what can I do to overcome indifference?

Indifference is just a result its never a cause, in order to overcome being indifferent you need to take care of the underlying reason that was the origin of indifference, if its depression then take actions to overcome it, if its loss of hope take actions to build hope, if its religious skeptics search more and more in order to solidify your beliefs. Just fix the root cause for indifference and then it will leave you.

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Did that help?

yes but tell me more about loss of hope

No, not until you tell me what to do to get back the lost hope

No, not until you tell me how to deal with depression

i lost hope because my efforts yeilded no result,tell me what to do?