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loneliness and interest in people

If you have already did what was mentioned in the overcoming loneliness tips but still you do feel the same then your problem may be a little different. Maybe that the people you know are not of a great interest to you, that is you know lots of people, some of them may even be caring about you but you don’t really enjoy being with them. This is a very common problem that happens due to having different interests,background or values.

what you should you do in that case

The problem here is simple, you just need to define the type of person or people that you do enjoy their company, definitely you must have some kind of criteria of the people you want to spend your time with, try to expand your relations a little more and sooner or later you will bump into someone whom you are interested in.

loneliness and shared interest

We can say that if two people are together and both are interested in talking to each other the feelings of loneliness will never appear. The same goes For groups, if the group is interested in being together like having some interesting stories that they are sharing and everyone is concentrating, this type of environment is anti lonely. However, if everyone is sitting but no one is that interested to talk or listen some may experience loneliness at that time (given that they don’t have other strong intimate relations)

loneliness and the power of solitude

another thing you can do to combat loneliness is building
the power of soltiude, the power of solitude is the ability to feel good and happy on being alone. i dont discourage being alone at all but i encourage building the power of solitude in parallel with dealing with loneliness.

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Did that help?

Yes, I guess the soloution is expanding my relations

not untill you tell me more about the power of solitude