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Can friends become lovers
By M.Farouk Radwan, MSc.
Can friends become lovers
Can friends become lovers?
In fact, one of the best ways ever to make someone fall in love with you is to become friends with him first. Before i tell you why friends can become lovers you first need to know that people in fall when they find a person who has a similar or a higher total score than them.
A total score is the value a person gives to someone else which determines whether he can be a potential partner or not.
I have said earlier that each person calculates this total score differently based on his own values, background and past experiences (see Ways to make someone want you)
So what does this has to do with lovers becoming friends?
This is why friends can become lovers
Based on the previous facts the best way to make someone fall in love with you is to become friends with him first in order to know how exactly he calculates the total score for others.
After all it would make no sense trying to impress someone with things that he doesn't care about. When you become friends with a person you will know more about his background, values and past experiences and thus you can make him love you by matching the criteria he is looking for in a future partner.
In my book How to make someone fall in love with you i said that once you match most of the items in a persons subconscious list you are automatically nominated to be a potential partner.
Because people always keep updating the total score for others all the time friends can become lovers if someone's total score changed greatly.
Love vs friendship
Close friends are the ones who have high enough total score to become friends but who don't have the total score that allows them to become potential partners.
This means that if you became friends with someone then you are already half way to make him love you.
Certainly friends can become lovers and in fact the best way to make someone fall in love with you is to become friends with him first without showing any intentions.
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