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What turns women on

By M.Farouk Radwan, MSc.

What turns women on

Men are so simple. They get turned on by any woman who looks healthy and fertile. The hour glass body shape, the full lips, the symmetry of the face and the low waist to hip ratio are all indicators of the presence of a good supply of the female hormone that promotes fertility. (see also What attracts people to each other)

A Man can make up his mind about being with a certain woman from the first glance and as much superficial as this seems to be still its considered a biological fact.

This doesn't mean that men can chose life partners just because they look good but it means that men will at least get aroused by women who are physically attractive even if they know nothing else about them. (see also Physical attraction perception)

Women on the other hand are more complicated, yes they do care about looks but the way they are made prevents them from being turned on unless the man meets certain important criteria that they are looking for.

The difference between the biological wiring of men and women

I once read a statement that explains it all; "men need a place to have sex, women need a reason!"

Research found that women don't get aroused before a man meets their important subconscious criteria they are looking for in a man. In other words, a woman can become turned on after she realizes that a certain man can provide her with security, protection or whatever she is looking for.

This is why there is no drug like Viagra to enhance sexual performance for women. Its because a woman's mind gets involved and prevents her from getting turned on if the wrong man is present.

This is also another cause of sexual problems that happen between men and women after marriage. If the woman lost respect for her man or felt that he is not man enough then she might not experience any arousal during the sexual process.

What attracts women?

Apart from physical attraction women get attracted to dominant men, alpha males and bad boys.(see What women look for in men).

women are also attracted to resourceful men and ambitious ones. An expensive watch can attract a woman to a man the same way a woman's looks can attract a man. Its not that women are materialistic but its just that women are biologically wired to seek the most resourceful man. (see also Does money attract women)

Many men with average looks get out of the game so early because they believe that women will not get attracted to them but the good news is that even if the woman doesn't find you that attractive she still can find you sexually attractive after she gets to know more about your personality traits. (see does our personality affect our level of attractiveness)

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