Overcome depression now
Feeling bored all the time
By M.Farouk Radwan, MSc.
Boredom is a message
Feelings are just messages sent to you by your brain in order to motivate you to take some kind of action. Those who understand the nature of feelings will successfully be able to get rid of any unwanted emotion while those who don’t get the idea behind them will remain haunted by the bad feelings. (see Emotions are messages).
Boredom is a message sent to you by your brain telling you that there are much more important things that you should be doing instead of what you are doing now.
Feeling bored all the time
Joe used to be very shy when he was a little child and so he never managed to have a good social life. Later on when he grew up and got rid of shyness he suddenly found himself interested in meeting new people.
Joe’s mind was trying to help him compensate for his past failures in establishing good relationships with people by motivating him to meet new ones.
When Joe used to spend a day at home watching TV he used to feel really bored but he never understood the reason. The truth was that his mind was sending him the boredom signals to tell him that he should be going after his unmet social needs instead of staying at home.
Finding someone boring
In the Solid Self confidence program i said that If someone found you boring then this doesn’t mean that you are boring at all but it only means that you can’t help him satisfy his past unmet needs.
In my previous article why is he not interested in me I explained how a guy who was dumped by blonds when he was a teen can find all non blonds uninteresting.
This happens because the guy’s mind wants him to come in contact only with those who can help him get over his past failures.
If you feel bored all the time or if you experience boredom often then try to think of the the thing your mind wants you to do instead of what you are currently doing.
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