Money and fame changed him

He used to be an ordinary guy until he became famous
He started ignoring their phone calls
He started to avoid his old friends whenever he met them
His personality has changed a lot after he became famous and after he made lots of money

but does this mean that money and fame changes people?
No, it just means that this person needs proper treatment because of his very low self esteem.

Money and fame changes people

When a person has a high self esteem he usually thinks of himself as an important person even if he was poor or unpopular. Believing that he is important this person expects a certain way of treatment from others, else he feels that people aren’t giving him the attention he deserves.

On the other hand, when a guy has low self esteem he tends to feel that he is unimportant and he only feels bad when people ignore him because it reminds him of his unimportance.

Now what happens when the guy with low self esteem suddenly become rich and famous? He will then think that he became more important, and since he became more important he will start to expect a better treatment from everyone. This in turn will lead him to ignore others who used to ignore him, to avoid answering the calls of those who didn’t use to call him often and so on.

I became worthy

This person has just made a confession that he became more important. Or to put it in another way, he made a confession that he wasn’t worthy then suddenly became more worthy.

The other guy who was already self confident would have not changed the way he deals with other after becoming rich and famous because he already knows that was important since the beginning, and that’s why he didn’t demand any special treatment because of his fame or wealth.

Self confident people feel worthy even if they are ordinary people and so when they became famous they don’t change their ideas about themselves while those who lack self confidence feel that they have became more worthy after becoming rich or famous and so they demand a new way of treatment from others.

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