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The Body Language of Flirting

Researches have found that there is a direct relation between the states of feeling that we experience and between our gestures. So if you are feeling happy your gestures will take a form that is different than the form it will take if you were feeling sad. So if you managed to know the gesture associated with a certain emotional state you will be able to detect the presence of this emotional state. The same goes for flirting because it’s just an emotional state, if you knew the gestures and the body language changes associated with the state of flirting you will easily know if someone is trying to flirt with you.

Flirting Signs and Gestures

Whether you found them strange or not or whether you believed in them or not still these are the signs of flirting. These signs are not subject to suspect nor they represent my opinion about flirting but they are proven facts. I am not asking you to believe in them without testing them but all am asking you is to test them and see for yourself.

• Pupil size: When someone sees something or someone that he likes, his pupil size gets bigger!! I know that this is a bit hard to notice, but with training you will be able to detect these slight changes in pupil size and so know if someone likes seeing you.
• Playing with her hair : This sign is only associated with girls. When a girl wants to flirt with someone or when she finds him particularly interesting, she may start to play with her hair, twist it and flicker it. This could happen once or several times during the conversation, and the more the better.
• Pointing towards you with his toes or feet: If he wasn't sitting right next to you then most probably he will be pointing to you using his feet or toes. An even better case is when he totally faces you with his whole body.
• Seeing teeth in his/her smiles: A smile should be wide enough to reveal at least the front teeth, otherwise it may have been a fake smile or a smile for the sake of being polite and nothing to do with you at all.
• Keeping you in His/her line of sight: The person who is flirting with you will try to keep you in his line of sight and as a result you may find him taking a look at you each now or then or you may find him continuously orienting himself in order to be facing you even if he was standing with someone else.
• Clothing: A girl will generally try to wear the best clothes she has when she is aware that you are going to be there. By just asking her about her favourite colors or clothes you will be able to notice if she wears them often when you are around.

Many More Signs

Wanting to flirt means that the person finds you particularly interesting and that’s why I strongly recommend reading the section about the "state of being interested". In addition to the above signs, you can use these signs of interest to make sure whether someone wanted to flirt with you or not.

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Want to know more?

How do i know if someone is interested in me?

Yes, but what are the signs that show that someone loves me?

I know nothing about body language. Take me to the body language main page.

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