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How to deal with failure

By M.Farouk Radwan, MSc.

How to deal with failure

Ask any successful person you ever came in contact with about the secret to success and he will tell you that trial and error is the key to reaching what you want. Whenever you fail you must find out what was wrong during the last attempt then fix it in the next attempt and see if that will work.

As you keep trying and failing you will end up with the formula that works and you will be able to become successful.

Remember the first time you were searching for a way to lock the keypad of your mobile phone? Most probably you clicked many wrong buttons and asked some wrong people until you found out what works.

So if success is that easy then why isn't everybody successful?
Simply because some people never manage to rise after they fall and so they never reach success!!

In this article i will tell you how to deal with failure so that you can become successful in your life.

Step by step approach for dealing with failure

Here is how to deal with failure:

  • Change your beliefs about failure: You must change your false beliefs about failure and implement new beliefs. You must understand that failure is just a method that lets you find your mistakes so that you can avoid them in the next attempt. You must also be aware that success is a matter of failing many times until you find out what works.
  • So how to change your beliefs about failure?: Read about the success stories of successful people until your subconscious mind absorbs the idea and gets the point. Its worth to mention that this website that made me a Dot com millionaire wasn't the only site i created, i did create 5 websites, 4 weren't successful and one made me a dot com millionaire!! So its all about trial and error!! See my book How i did it
  • Learn to become emotionally stronger: Lots of people fail to continue trying because they find failure emotionally devastating. If failure is a must before success can happen then it makes a lot of sense to develop emotional strength so that you can withstand failure. In short, those who can tolerate failure are the ones who eventually try once again and are the ones who become successful. (see How to become emotionally resilient and
  • How to become emotionally strong)

  • Express your emotions after failure: After all you are a human, you have the right to feel bad, to stay few days in bed or to feel down after you fail but put in mind that this state must never take longer than few days. Express your emotions, don't suppress them but put in mind that you must rise again
  • Rise and rise again: After you accept what happened its time to go for the second attempt but first you should find out what went wrong during the previous attempt then try again while putting this information in mind

Final words about dealing with failure

If you followed this formula you will reach what you want in life and you will become unstoppable.

Its all about finding out what was wrong during the last attempt, fixing it then trying again until something works.

I am not saying that this is going to be easy nor i am saying that this wont require patience, persistence and hard work but all i am saying is that this formula will certainly work if followed.

I didn't only study psychology for 10 years but i also completed my MBA and became a dot com millionaire, The information you just read can dramatically increase your chance of increasing your wealth and of becoming reach. The book How I did it was written by Me and it explains how I managed to make a website that generates thousands of dollars/month in less than 2 years without paying a penny and that made me yet another dot com millionaire :)

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