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why can't you make friends

If your problem is that you don't have many close friends or that you don't have friends at all then there must be another reason that is keeping you back from being a person who is socially successful. Maybe you lack the self confidence Required for approaching people.Or maybe you have labeled yourself by thinking that you are a failure, a loser, or a boring person and so those labels kept you away from people by making you feel afraid to take a forward step to change the situation to your side and or establish successful relations.

another thing that could prevent you from being a social person is shyness, if you suffer from shyness know that getting rid of your loneliness will require dealing with shyness too,because in that case shyness is acting as a barrier to your social life and so results in keeping you alone.

Did that help?

No, the problem is that I don't know how to make friends!!

Yes Yes, confidence is my problem

i guess shyness is the problem, tell me what to do>

It's not my fault, my unique conditions (type of work, area of study...etc) caused me not to know lots of people