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lack of motivation and need

suppose you were in a camp in the forests of Africa and while walking in between the glasses suddenly you heard a roar and found that a lion is heading towards you, what are you going to do? of course you will run like you have never ran before ,even if you were tired , even if it was very sunny, even if you didn't eat since the morning, all what you will think of is running as fast as you can, your focus will be on one thing, i don't want to die, i want to escape, i don't want to be a snack for that lion, you are motivated to run!!

where did all that motivation suddenly came from?

this situation could be the peak of motivation someone can reach, after all the reward of running is saving your life!! your existence!! now suppose that you were at home, you have some lessons to study and the exam is 30 days later, most probably you will say , "oh its still too early i don't have a reason to study now, i really don't need to get high grades i just want to pass".

what's the difference between the two examples ?? , clearly , its the need, at the first example you really needed to escape, and on the second one you just didn't have enough strong reasons to take actions, the need of something or being in need can be on of the strongest reasons to motivate you, another example is someone who is working a part time job to increase his income while another one is working only one job for living, the first one is more likely to be much less motivated than the other one who works for living, because simply if the second one didn't work, he will die !!

if your family is poor you may be more motivated to collect money than someone who lived in a rich family, after all, you can notice that rich people around can come from both rich and poor families while very wealthy people who have billions of dollars are more likely to have come from a family who did have some financial problems. now thinking that way, you may think that if you don't have the need you can hardly be motivated but what's true is, you can create the need yourself if you wanted to.

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got more questions?

yes,how to create the need??

yes, i have the need but i am feeling indifferent!!

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