Loving two people at the same time

Every now and then I get a message from one of the readers asking me for an explanation for the phenomenon of loving two people at the same time. You may become confused when you find yourself having feelings for two different people at the same time. This could make you think that you are really in love with both of them, however, as soon as you know the reasons behind it the picture is going to become clearer.

Why isn’t one person enough?

If you fell for someone as result of love addiction (falling in love with someone because you are addicted to love itself and not because you love the person himself) then most probably this person won’t be a perfect match for the criteria you were looking for. Under the effect of love addiction we tend to forget about some of the important criteria we are looking as if we are half blind and the result is being with someone whom we don't truly love.

Everything should go fine if we didn’t meet someone else who really matches our criteria, but if this happened, then most likely we are going to fall for him too thinking that we love two people at the same time. Love addiction can make you blind for a while in such a way that it result in making you fall in love with someone who barley matches the criteria you are looking for.

Love addiction is not the only thing that can make someone fall in love with two people because if it happened that two people matched your criteria you may become interested in them both. As long as those people are new to you it’s not odd to become attracted to both of them but as you get to know them more you will find that one of them is a better match for you. If you knew both for a long time and you still have feelings for both of them then you should ask yourself one question, which one do I really love? Because in such a case you may be fooling yourself into thinking that you love them both while the truth is that you love one of them and you are just addicted to the other.

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