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Why did he dump me?

It only feels bad when someone dumps you if you think that he dumped you because you are defective. Contrary to common beliefs, the factor that contributes most to feeling bad after being dumped is not being sure of one’s self. Its not love that hurts when someone dumps us but its our ego.

Suppose that you were dumped by a person then discovered that he did it because he thought that you deserve someone better than him, would you feel that bad?
No, you won’t feel bad at all because you are sure this time that you weren’t dumped because of a problem that is related to your looks or your personality.

I am not saying that love has no weight but I am only pointing out that there are psychological factors that have much higher weight and by dealing with those psychological factors you will be able to recover within days from the worst break-up ever.

Why did he leave me?

The reason you are asking yourself that question is that you are uncertain about the reason. I am sure that you already have some possibilities in your mind like:

1-he left me because I became a boring person
2-maybe he never loved me before, it was just an illusion (see signs of serious relationships)
3-he dumped me because I am not that beautiful

The reason you have these possibilities in your mind is that you are not sure yet of your strengths and weaknesses. If you know your points of strength and points of weaknesses well your confidence won’t be shaken when someone dumps you.

If I told you that the device you are currently using to browse the internet is not a computer but a helicopter, will you believe me? No you will never do because you know that it’s a computer. But what if you didn’t know what is it? What if it was the first time you see it and then I told that it’s a helicopter? In this case you are going to believe me because you have no other information about it. The same goes for your personality, if you know yourself well, nothing will be able to shake your self confidence even if someone dumped you.

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