self image and the first impression

most probably the blurred self image that you have of your self was due to your past experience. you may have been labeled as fool or a loser by your colleagues to an extent that you associated those labels with your self image . but do you know that people judge other's looks based on their own previous history?

that means that if i knew someone who was nice to me,and then i met someone new who looks like that nice person i may assume that he is nice too, while if i met someone who looks like my arrogant boss i may think that he is arrogant too. judging your looks is something that is internal to every person, and every one can view you from a different perspective based on his own experience, so thinking that you have a general impression on everyone you meet is an incorrect idea .

seems here that you are were victim of theovergeneralization way of thinking where you judge everything by one situation , consider reading more about how to change your way of thinking instead of thinking of how to change your looks.

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