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Why do some men lose interest after sex

By M.Farouk Radwan, MSc.

The difference between men and women

Why do some men lose interest in certain women after having sex?
I get many messages from women who say that they are unhappy because their men left them for good few days or weeks after having sex.

This problem begins with the lack of understanding of the way men think. A woman will chase a man if she likes him (in most cases) but a man can chase a woman for different reasons. A man might be chasing you because he likes you or just because he wants to have sex.

I get many messages from many confused women who tell me that some men send them messages and say that they love them then do the opposite and i usually reply saying that many men will do whatever it takes just to reach the goal of having sex.

In other words many women are too naive to realize that some men can lie, act as if they have emotions and make up so many stories just to end up having sex.

While most women usually have the goal of bonding with a partner that they love many men seek sex and nothing else.

Why do some men lose interest in women after having sex?

At this point you may have guessed that men who lose interest after having sex are the ones who wanted nothing but sex and that's correct. But the question is, why do those men lose interest and start chasing other women?

In my previous article How psychological factors affect sexual desire i explained how human beings can become turned on because of psychological reasons and not physical ones.

If for example a man failed to get into a relationship with a certain woman then he will get turned on by any other woman who shares few similar features with her even if the similarity couldn't be noticed on the conscious level.

A man might get attracted to a woman who has the same eyes or nose of his favourate actress without noticing the similarities with his conscious mind.

In other words the past unfinished business can control a man's sexual desire and determine the type of woman whom he will get attracted to. (see also What people's actions say about their personalities)

In other cases some men get physically attracted to certain women just because they want to control them, feel superior to them or because of any other psychological reason.

What can a woman do about that?

Here in the middle east most couples never have sex before marriage and these traditions solves a very big part of the problem. If the man isn't of the commitment type and if he only wants sex then he will give up and lose hope whenever he finds that he has to commit or that the cost he will inure to have sex is too much.

In other cultures where couples could be in a relationship even if they are not married i advice women to avoid sex in the early phases in order to test the man. The man who has no goal in mind but to have sex will always be impatient and won't be able to wait for a long time.

If he wasn't allowed to reach his goal in the first few weeks then he will certainly leave and pursue another woman. by doing so you will be able to filter those who are not serious about the relationship.

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