Body Language: In state of flirting

By M.Farouk Radwan, MSc.

Body Language: In state of flirting

Researches have found that there is a direct relation between the states of feeling that we experience and our gestures. For example if you felt happy then your body will take certain gestures that are different than the gestures it will take if you were feeling sad.

So If you managed to know the gesture associated with a certain emotional state you will be able to detect the presence of this emotional state. The same goes for flirting because it’s just an emotional state, if you knew the body posture and the body language changes associated with the state of flirting you will easily know if someone is trying to flirt with you.

Flirting Signs and Gestures

Whether you find them strange or whether you find it hard to believe in them still they are clear signs of flirting. These signs does not represent my opinion about flirting body language but they are proven facts. I am not asking you to believe in them without testing them but all I'm asking you is to test them and see for yourself.

Here the body language flirting signs:

  • Pupil size: When someone sees something or someone that he likes his pupil size gets bigger!! I know that this is a bit hard to notice but by training you will be able to detect these slight changes in the pupil size and so know if someone likes seeing you.
  • Playing with her hair : This sign is for girls only. When a girl wants to flirt with someone or when she finds him particularly interesting she may start to play with her hair (twist it or flicker it). This could happen once or several times during the conversation; the more the sign happens the clearer the message is!!
  • Pointing towards you with his toes or feet: If someone was interested in you and if he wasn't sitting right next to you then he will point directly towards you using his feet or toes. A clearer flirting sign is when he sits with his body totally facing you.
  • Seeing his/her teeth through the smile: A smile should be wide enough to reveal at least the front teeth otherwise it may be a fake smile or a smile that has nothing to do with you.
  • Keeping you in his/her line of sight: The person who is flirting with you will try to keep you in his line of sight As a result you may find him taking a look at you every now and then or you may find him continuously orienting himself to be facing you even if he is standing with someone else.
  • Clothing: The person will generally pick his favorite clothes and wear them if he believed that he will possibly see you. You could ask him about his favorite colors and observe whether he wears them a lot when you're around or not.

Body language and attractiveness

In my book, How to make someone fall in love with you i explained how you can use such signs to increase the chance of making someone fall in love with you.

By being able to read these signs then use other ones that can make you appear more attractive your chance of attracting someone is going to be much easier.

Many More Signs

The urge to flirt means that the person found you interesting and that’s why I strongly recommend reading the section about the state of being interested. In addition to the above signs you can use the signs of interest to make sure that the person really is flirting with you.

2knowmyself is, without doubt, the only complete guide to body language on the entire internet. If you dare challenge this statement, then check the 2knowmyself’s
body language section and you will know what I am talking about.

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