Reasons for falling out of love

By M.Farouk Radwan, MSc.

Falling out of love

When the passion fades away from a relationship some people mistakenly think that they have fell out of love. This usually happens as a result of the false beliefs that the media fed those people with about love.

Healthy relationships are the ones that move on from the passionate stage to the compassionate stage where the main pillars holding the relationship becomes intimacy and respect instead of passion.

If you feel that you are falling out of love because of the loss of passion then you must educate yourself about healthy relationships instead of comparing what is happening to you to a romantic movie you saw.

Reasons Why do people Fall out of love

Sometimes people fall out of love without knowing the reason then end up feeling guilty because of wanting to dump their current partner. Falling out of love can happen because of many reasons but most of them can be grouped under those two categories which are:

Change in your subconscious criteria: As I mentioned before, people fall in love with those who meet a list called the unconscious criteria which is stored in their subconscious minds.

This unconscious criteria is not a permanent criteria but it can change with major life events. Suppose that a girl didn’t value honesty and that she loved a man who wasn’t honest. If one day this girl faced a major problem that caused her serious troubles because of the lack of honesty of someone she dealt with then most probably her subconscious criteria will be updated to include honesty, and the result will be falling out of love because her man no longer matches her criteria.

In my book The book “How to get over someone in few days” i explained how can you get over anyone in a very short period of time by getting a little understanding of the subconscious criteria concept. Make sure you understand why you fall in love with certain people in order to be able to get over them.

Discovering something new about the person you love: what if the same girl who values honesty didn’t knew that her man wasn’t honest and then one day she discovered it by coincidence. If honesty wasn’t that important to her then nothing might happen but if she values honesty then most probably she will fall out of love.

Again I am repeating the same advice, don’t associate the loss of passion with falling out of love but just try to have more understanding of healthy relationships so that you can know whether you are truly falling out of love or not.

Because you got what you were after: some people seek relationships in order to satisfy some needs that they aren't consciously aware of. For example a person could try to get into a relationship with someone just because the challenge of winning the heart of that person can elevate his self esteem.

Of course that person won't be aware of the fact that he is chasing an Ego boost and not a long term partner and that's he falls out of love without understanding the reason behind it.

Your partner became so available: Many studies have shown that the rules of supply and demand work for relationships as well. The more demanded a person is the more attractive he becomes and vise versa.

Now if your partner became so needy then you might believe that his value went down and so you might become less attracted to him.

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