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How to love someone?? Weird title huh?
Usually people write articles about how to make someone fall in love with you or how to know if someone loves you but this article is a bit different.
This article will tell you how to love someone if you have problems loving him. Even if you were hurt by him or even if you don't love him still there are some things that you can do in order to love him again.
If you were married and your spouse loved you much but your feelings towards him started to fade away then certainly you will need something to restore the love back so that you save this relationship from collapsing. This is what this article is all about, it will tell you how to love someone that you can't love.
The first step towards loving someone is convincing yourself that you love him. The subconscious mind forms a new belief if it was repeated a certain number of times (see how to convince people).
You cant just go and repeat the phrase "I love him" because that will never work but you must do something that is more convincing to your subconscious mind so that it believes you like telling that person "i love you".
when you say it out loud to him you are actually saying it to yourself too but it becomes much more effective than if you said it to yourself. The more you tell that person i love you the more you are going to convince yourself to believe in this statement.
Repeating the belief won’t be helpful if you have another belief that contradicts it. That’s why you should first remove the hatred you have towards that person before convincing yourself that you love him.
Hatred is an emotion that your subconscious mind uses to protect you from coming closer to those who may represent a danger to your well being. You will always find that you hate people when you are in the weaker position. You will hate people who bully you, who hurt you and who represent a threat to you.
When looking at hatred from this angle it becomes clear that you are the one who should change and not the other person. If you learned how to deal with others even if they are not perfect you will find that you hate no one.
Another tip that can prevent you from hating someone is looking for the intentions behind his actions instead of looking at his actions. This deeper look will show you that lots of people intend no harm even If they harmed you.
On the contrary you will find that some people act based on fears, guilt and even lack of self confidence then appear to be bad people as a result. Don’t look at people’s actions superficially but take a deeper look and you will find that lots of people don’t deserve the hatred you have towards them.
In the article how to get over someone I warned of the consequences of visualization because it can result in stronger feelings of attachment.
In case you want to love a person, do the exact opposite; you have to keep visualizing yourself with him. This will further strengthen the new belief in your subconscious mind.
Don’t avoid the person that you want to love because that will reduce the intimacy in the relationship but instead stay more with him.
Staying close to him won’t only increase intimacy but it will strengthen the belief in your mind that you love him. Every time you see that person you will send a new message to your subconscious mind telling it that you love him.
What if you failed to love him even though you have tried all of the possible methods? In this case you should think using your mind and not using your emotions. Ask yourself these questions:
1-Am I trying to love him because I feel guilty? (in case he loves you but you don’t share with him the same feelings)
2-Is he matching my criteria? Does he posses similar values?
3-What if I loved him, what will be the future of the relation, will it work?
4-Will this relation make my life better or will it drag me lower?
If you found that you are acting emotionally based on guilt or on any other emotion then trying to love that person might be a mistake. In this case, making him a friend is the best decision.
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