Falling In Love With Someone After He Loves You

By M.Farouk Radwan, MSc.

Why Did she Fall in Love With Him Now?

They become friends since months but she has never thought of loving him. She thinks that he has a great personality and that he is attractive but still he was no more than a nice friend.

Until one day he started to show her signs of interest. Each day he used to surprise her with a new move that proves more that he is in love with her.

Finally she fell in love with him and up till today she doesn’t understand how or why it happened.

Why did she love him after she knew that he loves her back? If you had a similar experience then read this article well because it contains the answers to your questions.

Your Subconscious Mind is protecting You

One of the goals of your subconscious mind is to protect you. That's why it might sometimes prevent you from falling in love with someone just to protect you from the pain that might result from a breakup.

Ever asked yourself Why most people never fall in love with movie stars even though they are really attractive?

Because their subconscious minds are sure that they can’t reach them and so the best way to protect them is to prevent them from falling in love with them.

That’s what happened to the girl in the previous story. she unconsciously thought that this guy can never fall in love with her and so her subconscious mind prevented her from loving him. But when he started showing her his love her subconscious mind found no more reason for this protection and so she fell in love with him. (see also Love psychology)

Subconscious Mind Programming

Your subconscious mind can be programmed if a certain belief was repeated many times. For example if you kept failing your exams you will end up believing that you are not intelligent (see how to convince people).

You will also get used to a certain type of food that you don't like much if you kept eating it each day. If someone kept repeating his same argument over and over you may end up believing in it. This is how your subconscious mind operates; it accepts things as facts if they kept repeating themselves. (see The subconscious Mind Rules for more information)

So what does this has to do with love? In simple words a person can program your subconscious mind to make you fall in love with him.

The more will the person manage to let you think of him the more likely it will be for you to get programmed by his actions. If you discovered now that someone programmed you to fall in love with him and if you really want to get over him then check out my book “How to get over someone in few days” which will help you forget about anybody in the world in a very short period of time.

Why does programing fail sometimes?

you might have asked yourself, why such programming doesn't always work? I am sure you tried hard enough once in your life but didn't get a response right?

If you didn't match a person's unconscious Love criteria then he wont fall for you even if you tried hard. The unconscious love criteria is a list of items that should be present in a person in order for you to love him. For example if your criteria includes an item such as "he must be slim" then you will never fall in love with a fat person even if he tried hard. If you want more information about love criteria please check out the psychology of falling in love section.

So if a guy matched a girl’s criteria and if he managed to keep her thinking about him then certainly she will fall for him.

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