The subconscious mind is like a child

By M.Farouk Radwan, MSc.

Why am i getting those desires?

So many of the people i coached kept wondering why do they keep getting certain psychological desires that never helped them. For example a client once kept wondering why he still likes his ex even though the relationship was anything but healthy.

My client told me something like: if my subconscious mind knows best and if its still attached to my Ex then probably my Ex was good for me.

The problem with my Client's assumption is that he assumed that the subconscious mind does everything correctly. The reason so many people have that false belief are the numerous articles written about the power of the subconscious mind.

Yes of course the subconscious mind is very powerful but without proper knowledge about it this power can actually work against you. A Ferrari has a very powerful motor but if someone didn't know how to drive it then this powerful Motor won't just result in an accident but it might actually kill you.

The subconscious mind is like a little

The Subconscious mind is like a little child. It acts based on its desires and emotions while igonoring everthing else. It wants the things it wants right away without waiting and with disregard to any social norms. If for example you had a small fight with your boss you might actually find yourself imagining that he is dying somehow.

After all those thoughts come from your subconscious mind and the fact that they are anything but rational shows how your subconscious mind cares about nothing but a quick resolution to its problems.

In my book How to get over anyone in few days i explained how the attachment to a person can be confused with love. In such a case the subconscious mind won't really care whether its a healthy attachment or not as much as it cares about finding a loving partner or avoiding rejection.

In such a case the power of your subconscious mind will actually work against you. You will get more attached to that person, you will miss them often and you will get all kinds of emotions that can hardly be resisted without proper knowledge.

Yes the The subconscious mind is very powerful but it cares about nothing except getting what it wants and certainly this can lead to serious problems.

Why conscious control is the soloution

The only way to restrain the subconscious mind's improper desires is to let the conscious mind look after the subconscious mind. The conscious mind in such a case represents the adult or the parent who takes care of the child and guides him to the right actoins.

Whenever you get a bad unconscious desire the only way to stop it is to consciously push it away by explaining to your subconscious mind that this is a wrong desire. Patience for example is a trait that comes from the conscious mind because the subconscious mind hates to wait.

If you were after a big goal for example you have to use your conscious mind to reassure your subconscious mind that the goal will be achieved after sometime.

This kind of cooperation between the conscious and the subconscious mind creates the ultimate kind of power. This can only happen when the person manages to let both work together like a team.

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