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I am a Boring Person

Some people think that they are boring just because they don’t find something to say when being in the company of other people. The mistake those people make is that they just label themselves without observing how do they act when being wwith close friends.

Most of the time those people will discover that they become more talkative when being with close friends and less talkative (or boring) when being with strangers, so the problem is not in being boring, the problem is being afraid to talk!!! If you can force yourself to talk while being with strangers even if you are afraid you will end up being a talkative person in all situations.

What if I don’t find Something to Say?

If the problem is not finding something to say then its time to double check your interests, usually people talk about their interests but others don’t perceive them as boring because they choose out of their interests the stories that others will like to listen to.

So if you have a few or no interests how come you can find something that others will like to listen to? In that case you may find yourself talking about something that they don’t like or even find yourself staying silent. Know that the more interests you have the more you will find topics to talk about and the less you will be perceived as a boring person.

Finally, its not about the quantity of words its about the quality, you may not be that talkative yet make people enjoy your company, it all depends on selecting what to be said and when to say it instead of depending on keeping talking while no one is interested to listen.

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