Falling in love with someone else while married

By M.Farouk Radwan, MSc.

Falling with someone you can’t have

I usually get mails form time to time from people asking me about developing emotions for people they can’t be with, for example, one of the famous mails I get is from the 20 years old girl who likes the 45 years old man she sees often.

Whether you like someone else while you are married or whether you like someone who is much older than you then this kind of love falls under the same category of loving someone you can hardly have.

Falling in love with someone else while married

Before we can say whether this kind of love is healthy or not you must first know that the seed that starts love is usually physical attraction or some kind of interest in someone that results from the release of certain chemicals.

You can become physically attracted to any person who matches your physical attraction criteria starting from someone who is older than you up to a movie star whom you see only on television. (see What attracts women and men).

That’s why the role of the conscious mind must always be preventing the subconscious mind from letting that attraction grow to become deep love if the relationship is not logically possible.

If this kind of control wasn’t allowed you will always fall in love with people you can’t have and you will cause lots of troubles to yourself and the people around you.

Watch out for the chemicals

In my previous article, why do people cheat, I explained how some cheaters fall in love with people whenever they feel attracted to them not knowing that this attraction resulted from chemicals that will sooner or later fade away!!

This means that if you got bored of your wife then this does only mean that the chemicals that get released at the beginning of a relationship ran out. People who chase these chemicals always end up with disappointment because they never last except for the early stages of a relationship. (see How to restore love to marriage).

If you always fall in love with someone else while married then know that this kind of attraction you have towards him might not last and that you are risking your current relationship for something that might end sooner that you expect.

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