How to make people enjoy your company

By M.Farouk Radwan, MSc.

So tiny Yet Very Effective

I have mentioned in my previous article Love, Hatred and the mind that people will love you when their subconscious minds discover that you are important to them or when they discover that there is a need for you.

Based on that concept there are few tiny but very effective tricks that you could use in order to appear important to people's subconscious minds and so to make them love you and enjoy your company.

Although I am not talking in this article about romantic love still you can use these techniques for relationships. If you want to know how to make someone love you for the sake of a romantic relationship then check this article.

Understand their unconscious needs

All people without exception have unconscious needs that they want to satisfy. One need for example could be wanting to laugh and forget about their stressful lives. The key to letting a person enjoy your company is to get a basic understanding of their needs.

Once you do so you can work on displaying the kind of behaviour that would help a person feel better. If you did so not only a person will enjoy your presence but he will want to hang out with you more often. See also Unmet needs psychology.

Understand their interests

People love talking about their interests and discussing them with others. Once you understand a person's interests you can make sure that he will enjoy your company by just talking about them.

Those interests could be as simple as a game , a movie or a certain hobby. Why do you think people like fan pages on the internet?

It's because they want to connect with people who share the same interests with them. See also Friendship psychology.

How to Make People Love You

People need to feel that they are important, they become so happy when someone cares about them and feel bad when someone ignores them. What you need to do is to exploit that need by providing them with what they want and when they find that you are helping them to feel important their subconscious minds will let them love you.

  • Remember their Names: Its feels real good when someone who met you once remembers your name. it makes you feel that you were noticed and that you left a good impression. By remembering people’s names you will be giving Them what they need and so programming their subconscious minds to love you
  • Remember their Birthdays if it feels good to find that someone you recently knew remembered your name then it feels even better to find someone calling you or sending you a message on your birthday. Again you are exploiting the same need, the need to be loved and cared for
  • Meet them with A Smile: When you meet someone let the first thing he notices about you be a big smile. He will think that you were happy to see him and so you will satisfy his same need of wanting to be important
  • Care for them when no one does: Don’t you notice how do you feel when someone cares for you at a down time or when others ignore you? Usually anybody who cares for you or helps you at a down time will have a special place in your heart. When the subconscious mind finds someone supporting you in a down time it will believe that this person is important to you and so it will make you love him

So to summarize this all, you just need to make the other person feel that he is important and that he is worthy especially in his down times and during times where people have turned their backs to him. do so and he will definitely love you.

Things that offend people

In addition to the previous information there are some things that could offend people and prevent them from enjoying your company completely. Here are the most popular ones:

  • 1) Arrogance: Arrogance and excessive self interest turn most people off. If you want people to enjoy your company then avoid arrogance. Arrogance works sometimes when you want to attract a women but generally it backfires with males. See Why many women like narcissists
  • 2) Forcing your beliefs onto them: Beliefs are a considered a sensitive matter. Most people won't feel comfortable if a person attacked any of their beliefs directly or indirectly. To get along with people make sure you don't go against their beliefs. Just avoid sensitive topics at least in the beginning.
  • 3) Bad sense of humor: Not all kinds of humor make all people laugh. To make a person enjoy your company you must be smart enough to understand his own sense of humor. Luckily this can be learned. check out this section for more information.

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