I Lack Confidence Because I Am Not Skilled

By M.Farouk Radwan, MSc.

Skill and the Shoelace

Have you ever paid attention to what you do while tying a shoelace? If you haven’t, then go try it now and see if you can notice anything.

What you will notice is that it's a complex skill requiring a lot of harmony between your hands and fingers yet you do it in seconds without facing any trouble and you may even be talking to someone else or watching television while doing it.

Why You Think You Cannot Do Other Tasks

There are many other complex tasks that you do on a regular basis without paying any attention to their complexity, like typing on the keyboard, driving your car or doing you daily routine work.

If you have the ability to do these complex tasks while doing something else like talking then why then can’t do some other things like playing football or basketball skillfully? Why do you limit your skill when it comes to some sports but consider your skill unlimited when it comes to daily routine tasks?

The answer is simple: When you were a kid whenever you failed to do something the people around you told you that you are not skilled and so you grew up with the false belief of being unskilled.

In the case of driving a car or tying a shoelace everyone around you kept convincing you that you could do it until you eventually became a professional at it.

In the Solid Self confidence program i revealed the fact that you were fooled. The human body is the ultimate machine; it can perform anything perfectly provided that you adhere to adequate training. Whatever you want to achieve can be achieved but you only have to believe in yourself and your abilities.

So Is There Actually Something Called Skill?

Definitely yes. I am not saying that skill isn't real but all I'm saying is that a skilled person needs less time to be a professional at something, while a less skilled person needs more time.

This means that being proficient at something is a function of believing in yourself and persistence. There are of course people who are already more skilled than you but you can catch up with them by training hard, believing in yourself and not letting anyone fool you!!!

There is more than one example of an athlete who managed to break world records even though he has a disability. I am not talking about disabled people who compete with disabled people but am talking about disabled people who compete with normal ones.

If a disabled athlete can beat another normal one even if he lacks a leg or a hand then what can we conclude?

Simply we can conclude that any person could master whatever he likes if he trained hard enough. And even if he was disabled he still has a good chance.

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